Hi again and welcome to this new week, I know its Monday and you might feel a bit low or lazy after that awesome weekend you had. So this post is that dose for your self improvement that will help you to start your week with some good and wise info.

Our body is not just on physical level but it does have an energetic pattern too. That energetic layer that first gets affected and later on the damage shows on the body. Your body is on physical level and just a level above it is the etheric realm which comprises of your emotional body, and above that is the astral realm/mental realm comprising of your mental body.

The body stays in good health and in harmony when all these realms are clear and the energies are flowing rhythmically. But our life and people who surround us are not always well and good. There maybe challenging times as well, and this disrupts our energy bodies completely. People who are around you also dont become bad, they have their own issues. Otherwise in a fast and busy life like what we have, do we have any extra time, that we can other then on our selves and on our family? Do we have time to bother others?

So now lets get directly on today’s hot and sizzling topic.

How are blockages of our body created?

Your body and its blockages whether its physical, mental or emotional they are all created by one small disruption. And do you know what’s that? Its the disruption of the rhythm of your breath. Your breath is the master of your health. Yogi’s since centuries have been working hard to get control over their breath. Do you think that its over-rated? I don’t think so.

Breath is the most important factor in either balancing your mind, body and soul or putting them in utter chaos.

Your breath has a particular rhythm, and that rhythm is in sync with the universe. Which means the outer and inner universe will be in harmony. When there is disruption in your inner universe then your outer universe will also be in some kind of disharmony. As we all are connected to some part of the universe.

Breath is the one that can be easily disturbed –

Your breath can be easily disturbed, especially if you are a part of the hectic city life. Breath will go high when you are doing stressful body work like running, lifting heavy weight etc and also get disturbed when you are emotionally down or stressful or fearful.

The time when your breath is disturbed is when your chakras get blocked or complete run out of tune. This time the more longer, the more devastation it can bring into your life and its different areas.

So the more you want to be balanced in your life, the more you want success in your life and all its areas the more you have to be balanced and in control of your breath. Which in turn will keep all your chakras in balance.

Which blockages are the most easy and which are difficult to remove?

Lets first understand what are the three kind of blockages that you can create in your energy body and through which chakra. The root chakra is connected and it can create/ undo blockage in your physical body. The sacral chakra is the 2nd chakra and it can create or remove emotional blockages. And the manipura chakra is the one that can create or remove blockage on your mental level.

Blocks develop from top to bottom in case of chakras. First the mental blockage will be created, with any conflicting thought that might come into your mind and if its not resolved it will become a mental block and that thought will keep coming back again and again. And the next is the emotional body, the conflicting thought will result into negative emotional outage; and if that emotion is not dealt with then that too will become a blockage and will keep coming back again and again; and then that emotion will create a physical block. Emotional body is dense energy body, and so the more heavy the weight of emotions gets the more stagnant they tend to become. And the moment the emotion stagnates it will start creating a physical block in that part of the physical body where it stagnates.

How to remove mental, emotional and physical blockages?

homeopathic medicines

Physical blockages are the most difficult to remove, then comes the emotional ones and then mental. I can say mental blocks are the easiest to remove. Not to overrate the fact that you need to be more understanding and wise so that you may develop lesser of mental blocks.

Physical blocks can be removed by various ways. Body might have developed diseases that are chronic. Or health issues may recur again and again. Medicines are the one’s that can help remove physical blockages, not just any medicine. Natural medicine that actually understands the body and then works according to it. Allopathy medicines actually create blockages. As they dont heal, they just add something that’s missing in your body inorder to bring the equilibrium. But its doesnt cure the ‘why’ that created the imbalance. Homeopathy and ayurveda helps heal the body. Also energetic ways of healing like reiki can help you clear physical blocks gradually.

But you dont have to completely depend upon outer sources of healing, for something that you created from within. You also have to make your own effort to clear your own physical blockages by regular exercising, taking healthy food, taking ample rest, cutting away harmful substances.

reiki healing

Emotional Blocks are a bit tricky for normal people, especially if you dont know that things like this exist too. They can be easily removed by practicing forgiveness, homeopathic medicine, back flower remedies, eft tapping, 5-min energy routine, pranayam & yoga, reiki, tai chi etc.

Mental Blocks are easily removed, here too forgiveness works, homeopathy works, crystals, good company, cutting away unwanted- undesired people from life, visual board with positive suggestions, talking positive and staying away from negative topics, talking more frequently about your likes then your dislikes etc.

How to maintain the balance of your energies, once you manage to clear all your blocks?

To keep your mind, body and soul all balanced. To keep your physical, emotional and mental bodies in balance once you have cleared them of all blocks can be done by keeping the breath in control and keeping the chakras balanced all the time.

Chakra balancing can be done by meditating upon each chakra and throwing an intent upon each chakra that they are getting balanced. And to keep the breath in control by daily practicing panayama(breath control exercises) the breath will slowly come into your control and stay balanced most of the time.

When does body stay in natural rhythm without any effort?

full kundalini awakening

For long term and permanent balance you need to be fully kundalini awakened, this will make your energies balanced and breath in rhythm. There’s no external effort for balancing breath and chakras needed once this happens to you.

You can learn more about full kundalini awakening here.

How to reach this balanced state?

To reach the full kundalini awakened state you need to awaken your kundalini by any way you choose. Through any guru you prefer. To reach the fully awakened state is different for all individials as it depends on how quickly you can clear all your knots in your system that are created by your karmas.

img courtesy – from top to bottom sattva and Serge Bertasius Photography from www.freedigitalphotos.net and kundalini pic, of my own.

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Im not gonna talk all shit about exercise or eating healthyAll that is obvious and a must. So reading the “no nonsense about eating or exercising” should not give you any negative signals that eating right and exercising is an option or can be overlooked if you follow this guide. Beyond eating good and exercising, you need to know something more. If you don’t do that, all your exercises & eating healthy is in vain!

 

Now this is very important. And people who have done this have enjoyed not only good health but also overall satisfaction is every area of life. Obviously you will not enjoy just good health if you dont have money, and you wont enjoy money if you dont have good health. You wont enjoy relationships, property, travelling if you dont have good health. Not just physical good health or normal health reports on paper, but if you are not healthy overall then too it can make life seem to suck.

So let’s dive into it… To get healthy overall

Listening to your body- When you are into any situation or with people, your body sends out sensations to you, you feel different things, you get thoughts. If all these are good, with happy thoughts and soothing feelings know that the relationship with those people, your situation etc everything is good. And you are at the right place with right people. So there will be no harm to your health. Aka being in that place is a healthy choice for you.

But on the contrary if you don’t feel good at certain places, in company of certain people and standing in certain situations; where you constantly need to justify yourself, fear about ‘acting out your original feelings’, hesitate about sharing your thoughts and opinions on a topic that’s being discussed. Then know that you are not at the right place. I know this happens to most of us at most of the time, but this situation is like something that leaves you terribly uncomfortable and disoriented within. And you just feel like running away or breaking-free from that place. Then know for sure that its not good for your overall health.

On the contrary being slightly uncomfortable is okay. But if that happens a number of times a day, then try to fill the gap by offering yourself extremely comfy and appealing things/ people/ situations that will make you feel very good instantly. That way you will recover the energetic loss, that you gained during ‘little discomfort’.

Your mind body soul connection – 

You are not just your body, your mind and soul are connected to your body too. Your soul has come to this planet for some purpose and to grow. So if you are stuck into places which are being a hindrance in your purpose or your spiritual growth then your body will start giving up. Despite of being eating healthy and exercising.

** Psst What you need to do – 

You just need to take quick decision about that situation and act upon it. Staying stagnant and indecisive will just prove harmful & a waste of time for you. I mean if you don’t have to be with people you are and are at the wrong place in your life, nobody else suffers; its just you who suffers by wasting your precious time.

Why feelings are imp, and a must listen 

Feelings are connected to the heart. Your heart is meant to make you live. And the soul is connected to the heart. So whatever is going to be ‘not good’ or a ‘threat’ to your life or health; will always give out a nasty feeling in your body. Signalling quick action. And feelings are not to be avoided at all.

So what to do if you feel bad for your life partner? Your fat salary job or your million dollar new house? Well the definition is still the same. And feelings are not to be avoided in these cases too. Everything in life begins with YOU. A million dollar house would be of value only if you are happy in it, a life partner would do no good if you are not happy with her/him, a pile of money is not great if you are stressed, fatigued and drained out enough- that you dont have time to spend that money on your loved ones and yourself.

How diseases / ailments enter human energy body?

As you know now that you are not just your physical body. There are also higher bodies connected to you which form an entirety of your being. One level up from your physical body is your emotional body. And one level up from your emotional body is your mental body.

So when you have a thought, it gets converted into an emotion. It can be good or bad, and then that emotion gets converted into a physical impulse through your nervous system.

So if you have a negative thought, it gets converted into a negative emotion that will not feel good to you,and this emotion is further converted into physical body impulse telling your body that you are not enjoying in the current situation/ with people etc.

What to do, to assure you will always stay healthy?

So now, what to do to assure that you stay healthy….

– Listen to your feelings

Your feelings never go wrong. Listen to them, respect your body for giving out sensations and feelings that are nasty and horrible. Coz they tell you something’s wrong, before any astrologer or physhic can tell you.

Start figuring out whether you really want to be in a situation that might be really hurtful, be with people who repeatedly hurt and criticize you? Do you want to be in a cringe? Or set yourself free from the slavery?

– Weird choices? Make em, if your heart says so!

Now begin following your heart is my next piece of advice. You need to start following your heart. Aka start following your feelings. Do things that make you feel good, be with people who make you feel good, go to places where you feel elated etc. Doing this is easy, but it might make you ‘feel’ what if people call me crazy?

E.g.- you might feel like leaving a $50k job that sucks and go to a $20k job that celebrates and accepts who you are and your choices at a whole? Well doing this and taking this risk is totally upto you. Ways of the heart are weird at times, but they promise that you will never repent following your heart.

– Respect your body

Respect your body. You maybe fat, slim, average looking, glamorous bombshell, a simple person, a jovial person, talkative/ quiet, etc whatever it is ACCEPT yourself as you are. Accepting the body helps the body to get free and feeling free helps the free movement of prana energy within the body.

And feely flowing prana in your body assures that all the nutrition you take from your food and the stretching of your body during exercising session gets equally distributed within your system. As stretching and nutrition running only to a few parts of body isn’t healthy too.

– Check or Discard people who dont respect/ criticize your body. 

This might sound like a tough one. But I dont mean to say just discard… Discard… Discard. But learn that who around you are your real friends/ family that actually are loving you and wanting to stand by you in any situation in life. If there are people who just want to act like your well-wishers and pop-in everytime to drain you down of your energies and escape at times when you need their support and ‘being there next to you at testing times’ then you know what to do with them. Also check whether are you not running behind these critics just to prove that ‘you are a good person’ and are just craving for their justification? You need to believe in yourself and have confidence in yourself. If you keep running behind these nuts, you will never get out of that insecurity. Because, believe me- they want you to run after them; coz it makes them feel their ‘opinion’ matters and ‘its the only right thing’ that exists. And they will never make you feel good by accepting your opinion or decisions. 99% of times they will stamp a rejection on your actions.

And on the other side there are people you really love and who really care, but they might also be mesmerized by the negative disguised tv commercials and tv shows, that portray, that caring about people is ‘not to make them feel good all the time’, this is WRONG. Yes I know that, you dont have to flatter people, so that they dont keep building castles in air. But let your loved one’s decide for themselves how much to remain in dream world and when to snap back in reality. After all dreaming is also not bad, it helps us to grow better future and invent new things.

[ About eating healthy – Here’s a note about eating healthy. This post can’t underrate the fact that eating healthy food and exercising aren’t good. Eating healthy is a must and exercising is also a must.

But this post actually accepts the fact that eating healthy food that feels good to eat is actually healthy. So I don’t feel that things you don’t like to eat should be eaten only because they are good for health. As an overrated fact that bitter foods that are unappealing to the tongue yet are very healthy for the body. Even the eight fold yoga says that food that’s extreme in taste should be avoided. Extremely sweet, sour, spicy, bitter, salty tastes should be avoided.

And same thing goes for the exercising. Now I dont think that this is said by any health expert. I am not a health expert. Yet I feel that exercising should be in limitation not exaggerating neither too less. Exercising is for good of the body, dont let the body feel horrible doing it, and neither dont be too easy on your body that you dont flex enough muscles. Healthy people can exercise daily upto 45-60mins or 4-5 hours every week. Recovering people a bit lesser then this. Sick people, depends upon ‘feeling’ whether they want to exercise or not.

(I remember once I was sick and was finding it difficult to reduce my temperature, and then I got frustrated of being in the bed. And so I hopped out and began taking a walk, and after 2-3 hours my tempi returned to normal. And so just check what’s the feeling. You can never go wrong with feelings.)

]

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Earthquakes are devastating, they not only scrape the physical layers of our earth but also shake the soul. But if you are alive even after seeing all that, know that GOD WANTS YOU TO LIVE. And because you are living, hearing cries of people, trying to think how you could be of help to others; then know that you still have a “purpose to live” and you can be of help to mankind.

Its not necessary that you have to give in bulk of foods, cash, help inorder to help. You can just help by being cool and calm despite of knowing about what just happened, praying for all souls who exist on physical plane as well as those who have transformed to spiritual beings, accepting the current reality(I know its hard and might sound blunt on my part to say it.) as whatever happened was past. Today is a new day and the world still exists. And nature has returned back to its equilibrium after the shocks. So you too are expected to do the same.

I know life will not be the same. Take care of yourself. Help others who need your help. Try to ask help from others where you alone cannot stretch a helping hand. And forgive yourself for not being able to bring help to other’s, who raised a helping hand towards you.

Your hard earned money, jobs, businesses, homes, shops etc of your business might have turned down and become ruins; but remember to achieve and to succeed is not to gain in monetary or in bulky resources form. But to achieve is to give from whatever you have.

I dont know what to say more, I can truly believe what you are going through now. I might not be able to imagine how deep your wounds are, because I have never been thorugh a 7.9 magnitude one. We had a milder quake in Gujarat in 2001. Still I feel this helps. Take Care. Pray for yourself, pray for others. God really helps.

 

I get a lot of people coming to me who feel that I have a magic wand and that I would be able to help them come out of every problem they create. You know how it feels. Yes its good to be a messiah for people.

Do you feel the same way? I mean are you the one who is waiting for some messiah to enter you life and take away all your problems and fill your life with love, happiness and abundance? 🙂

Well I can understand that many people around the planet also feel the same way and keep waiting indefinitely for some miracle to happen to them. Or wait for some divine intervention to happen to them that will magically pull out them from problems, and could live happily ever after?!

But life is not to wait for miracles, you can make miracles happen to you daily. I am not exaggerating this fact, neither I am weaving flowery false statements to make you feel good. I really mean this if I am saying it. Just keep reading so that you come to know how to make your life miraculous daily.

What you are expecting?

You expect that something good happens to you from external environment. Something positive and wonderful so that you change your mindset. Many people have this belief. Actually almost every human would think this way if their life is not going right.

Everyone will be good and do good behaviour if everything is happening good with them. If something is not right with them, that only snatches their confidence of asking for good things. By living in this world you cannot expect always good things to happen to you.

What actually you are expected by the universe to do, during a hazardous phase?

The universe always is with us. Whatever we do, whatever we become. Its there with us, as it is incomplete without us. Life always shows a dark phase to almost everyone that are living. It depends on your karmas. But this is the truth. And so when you are not going through good phase, universe will wait for you to respond in a positive manner.

You did behave good when things were good. Its your choice to behave good or bad when times are bad.

Truth is – When you do good you get good in return, when you do bad you get equivalent in return.

So then the universe will wait for you to give out good so that it can return the good that you are expecting to happen to your life.

How to change bad into good?

So the big question burning in your mind right now, is how to change bad into good. So the answer is simple- start thinking, doing and being good.

Now you might say its not as simple as that. What I am easily saying cannot be done easily.

How to change bad into good?

But you bet, its really as simple as that. Human mind can think and focus about only one thing at a time. And so you can either think good right now or you can think negative.

So how can you begin to think positive?

To think positive you just need to think positive 😀 Yes I know this might be sounding hard. But its really that way. I know many times your mind might unconsciously slip into negative thinking, but as soon as you realize that again bring back your mind to good thoughts.

And its really easy to think positive. You have a certain set of negative thoughts that keep bugging you again and again, you just have to note them down and think opposite of what these thoughts are.

You can have only one thought at a time

I know you might say that its not as easy as I am saying it. But it gets easier once you begin working upon it. So just start working with your mind. The sooner the better. Be the messiah for yourself, be the miracle for yourself. The magic is inside you. And it will start appearing when you actually start doing something better and something good for you. Magic doesn’t happen in our lives when we have shitty thoughts. Only shit happens with that.

Once you begin following this system, you might have few questions. Dont forget to ask them in comments below. I would be happy to assist.

See you next week, here itself with another smashing post for you.

Till then Love you, Bye 🙂

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How to find your True Guru?

Hello dear, welcome to this beautiful topic. I know you are hungry within to gobble up this info. So let’s begin by defining who is a Guru? Its a huge word! You might have learnt in school that, a guru means ‘a teacher’. And probably you were also told by your teacher’s that they are your guru’s and so you need to respect them and listen to whatever they say! Ahem Ahem, sounds familiar? Yeah I too learned this definition at school itself, perhaps I have two teacher’s in my family which made me open to 100’s of them frequently and so you can imagine why this definition is so perfectly worded from my side 😛 Well jokes apart, having them also have made me into what I am today. My writing and language has developed from there, no idea how good I am at language. But instead of writing perfect english I try to write my true words so that I can stir up the real thing that I wanna write and made understood to you.

So let’s get to the real definition of Guru, that I later on learnt from Life and from my Guru.

Guru is a person/ entity/ energy/ being who is meant to be your mentor for life. Which means he is supposed to guide you towards a path where evolution and spirituality growth are concerned. And you would get lesser to no setbacks. [ I wrote lesser, whereas its actually no setbacks you’ll learn later on why I wrote that] to excel in the physical reality as well as grow on spiritual dimension is what’s your Guru’s motto for you.

 – Who needs a guru?

In my opinion, everyone needs a Guru. As every soul that’s born on this earth is not born just to enjoy yet another lifetime; eat, shit and enjoy the merriment that’s going on this planet. But every time a soul is born, the soul is supposed to live, learn and give. You are expected to do all these three tasks and keep doing them. You cannot do just one and then leave the other two. You HAVE TO do all. Whether you are willing or not. The universal intelligence will drive you towards a sequence of events and situations that will make you do the rest of the two.

Sounds like domination? Well its not that way exactly, the universe will make you do things that it wants you to do. And you would be in love with these things, so you wouldnt mind doing them. Out of your love for them, you will be creating things that the world needs.

Need an example of this? Well if the world needs a genius that will invent some extraordinary thingie, you might be compelled to watch sci-fi movies when you are expecting a baby! Simple Ehhh…..




– Who finds a guru?

All those who want a guru, need a guru, will find their guru. Guru is the most easiest person to reach to. You dont have to pay penances to reach out to your guru. He is already longing to embrace you in his arms. (here I say He, and its beyond Gender.)

– What are the characteristics of a true Guru?

A true guru will be able to know what you want, how you want it (but it doesnt mean, that he will give it to you in that way), whom you want in your life/ whom you dont want, what are your dreams, what sucks, what you would like to become( and what you actually have to become, though you might not want to accept it or want to run away from it), where you want to go and where you really have to reach in your life, what are your mistakes of past and how to make you mend them(though you might not want to talk about them), what makes you cry what makes you laugh, what is important what’s unimportant, what you want to learn & what you want to unlearn!

And the list goes on and on. But to be honest your guru knows it all. You neednt tell him all of it, neither he needs to spyingly get to know all of these from your neighbours.

– Where to find your Guru?

This is the most tricky question, not to say its difficult. But you actually have no clue where to find your Guru. Though your soul knows where to find Him. But when you are not in touch with your real self( for what your guru is meant), you might yet not know how and where to find him.

But the soul already knows and so you will be guided to go through a series of people/ books/ programs/ situations/ places/ intuitive messages/ dreams that will actually get you in touch with your perfect guru, that’s meant for you.

What to expect and what not to expect? 

When you read all the above lines you do get a bit mesmerized by the words as to what they mean. But they are not puzzling. Its actually that way, it might turn for you. Your Guru might not be how you might expect him to be, but will be exactly how you expect him to be 🙂 . A Guru can be in physical form and in energetic form. You might be guided by a series of guides in energetic form towards a Guru in Physical form. Or you might be guided to by a number of physical teacher’s who might lead you to your guru in energetic form.

And he will start guiding you when you are least expecting it. Stop guiding you when you are most expecting it. Give you a thunderous teaching when you almost give-up the hopes to get some teaching from him ever. All this is not dont to scare the hell out of you, neither to trouble you. Its done to scare out the devilish ego inside you. You are loved but your ego is his enemy as well as your enemy. So from day1 he will prepare you to make a whole YOU minus the ego.

Yes how much time it takes to bring the change depends upon you. Also on him in some ways. He will know how quickly you need to evolve on your spiritual path and so his teachings and energy boosts(the energy that he passes through you, to help you evolve) will come at quick or medium pace as the universe commands him to.

– How to accept the negative actions/ words of your guru?

There are a number of different things said about the character of a true guru and one of them is this, that he might say hurtful things or do acts that might leave you in shock. Let me tell you if you are knowing someone in physical body then this would surely happen. Also this might happen if you have considered some master who has crossed over to higher levels, as your guru( this master might have done good as well as terrible things while being in physical forms)Now you need to be very clear, that the Guru is not limited to his body. And what he needs to teach you, will come out through him while he is intending to give you guidance. In his personal life he might be a totally different person.

He might be acting as a henpecked husband, a terrific dominant mother, a looser type of youngster etc. But they are not what they wish to play. They teach you through what they portray in front of you. Even the best guru’s of all time have said that “don’t do what I do, do what I teach”. As divine energy flows through them in the form of knowledge and so they will give it out verbally or through writings. Physical body may not always through actions impart wisdom through these Guru’s.

And while I say that you need to avoid all the negative things that you might notice about your guru’s actions, there will be a time when those stupid actions will really start meaning something to you. And you will begin to learn from those experiences too. And at that moment you will realize that whatever your guru tries to show, hide, teach, unteach, talk, talk foul words, eat, fart all are somewhere meant to teach you something.

Its a test, for you. Its a test not actually for you. But for your ego. As ego is what the guru will always try to challenge, confuse and captivate. The three C’s of a gurus charm 🙂 .

Why a guru is not wrong when they say negative, do negative or be negative?

Guru’s are the one’s that have already crossed the barriers of the physical world, they are the one’s who have mastered the five elements such that they are no more slaves to them, and they are the winner’s of MAYA. The Maya that creates illusion of suffering, distinction of good/ bad, difference of divine and devil, is surpassed by these extraordinary beings which is why they are termed as GURU’s as doing this is not an easy job! But doing this is actually the easiest job! 🙂

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Re-kindle your love with your partner, with Tarot

The month of february just bring the thoughts of Love and Romance…. Falling hearts and music flowing in the air is the basic theme of this month. I would like to share this lovely spread with you. Though this is centered around people who are currently into a relationship yet it will be fun to practice it if you love doing different spreads.

You can also practice this spread if you are single and have someone in mind. Actually this spread can be used for just any relationship. To check how the relationship is going on and how to improve it for better.

1. Your Present relationship –

The first card will show you the current status of your relationship. What’s it. Well dont think too hard on this if there are no issues with it. Sometimes its good to bring back fire re-kindled into already good relationships. It just brings change, and change brings newness that helps to rekindle relationships.

2. What’s Lacking according to you –

This card will show lacks in your relationship. Now you have to really be open minded when you do a reading for yourself. As you need to find your own faults too, because it takes two hands to clap. So when in a relationship try to be open to everything that you are getting.

3. Whats Lacking according to your partner –

This card shows what’s lacking according to your partner. Here try to interpret the cards and then try to double check with your partner whether what you predicted was true or not.

4. What you expect – 

Your expectations from the relationship. Be careful here you dont get into possessiveness. Check and double check for cards that might point out that.


5. What does your partner expect –

Expectations of your partner. A wonderful way to know what your partner wants from you, its always good to know this. Helps to improve relationships as both the people work on what the partner expects from them. Also make sure your expectations are not too much, try to harmonize out sharp blows.

6. How to communicate lovingly your expectations and wants, to bring out the best in your relationship. –

After you work out what all the cards above mean then calculate out what exactly you have to communicate the thing to your partner. What you expect, what they expect and how they would like to get it fulfilled and how to bring the best feelings more into your relationship. Improvement of relationships should always be worked out equally by both. Remember if just one plans it out, its not a relationship.

I hope you liked this spread. I have more to come in future so stay tuned to my blog. SUBSCRIBE! 🙂

Did you try this spread? I would like you to share it in the results in comments below. Also you can practice it with your friends and family and do a reading for them. Lemme know how accurate it was for whom. If it was not accurate where it went weak and where it went perfect. Remember Tarot Readings are not wrong, you just have to learn to interpret them in the correct way!

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Why should you always think positive? What are the danger’s if you dont think positive always?

Majority of experts on mind and psychology define our mind as an energetic field that is soaked in our body as well as is around our body, whose center can be roughly the pit of our stomach. And that’s where the gut instinct comes from.

What happens when you think?

When we think you might have noticed that there are certain thoughts or certain type of thoughts that keep coming back into our mind again and again. There are a set number of different thoughts that we keep thinking on daily basis. And these thoughts have a deeper ‘space’ dug out for themselves into our mind. There is science called Neuro Linguistic Programming that teaches us more in depth about this.

The mind is connected to our brain and the left brain is associated to the right side or our body and right brain is associated to the left side of our body.

Then there are these neurons in our brain that carry impulses from brain to a part of our body and then the response to that action from part of our body to the brain. So whenever you think that you want to do something, then that impulse is sent to your hands the hands then do the work and the result is again sent to the brain as a response. (well its a lot more then this, but I have written this way to keep it simple)

There are a set amount of neurons that get linked to the repetitive thoughts that you think, and also store your response good/ bad to that thought. So when you think good or bad thoughts there are a group of neurons that gather together to form a team to help you feel what emotional charge is stored in them. These grouping is neurons collect a particular impulses that you keep doing repeteadly and thus help in carving your character or habits. What you are then depends on these NLP Partitions. That’s why we say its difficult for a poor man to get rich, its difficult for a sick man who’s been sick for a long time finds it difficult to get healthy completely, its difficult a weak student to become a topper at school etc. And so it takes a great difficult to step out of the box and do things differently that we havent done.

NLP Partitions

These group of neurons form partitions in your mind. And as you can see in the pic there are certain feelings that are stored more prominently in this mind. If  this is your mind, these emotions and thoughts associated with these emotions will be prominent for your mind. You get curious very easily, self-respect matters a lot to you, you also get sad sometimes, excitement also plays a vital role in your life, and also happiness and love are important and thoughts related to these emotions keep popping into your life.

So now already when these major partitions are formed, you make least amount of effort to get happy, feel love, work for self-respect etc. And the emotions like hatred, jealousy, guilt don’t have a partition. Which means you will find it difficult to think and feel about that. As its not in your ‘memory’.

And on the other side you might have major thoughts and feelings that are negative. Not to make fun of it. But that’s the way life has rolled in front of you till now. Also a fact that the negative thoughts and associations that you might have made is what you have perceived has happened to you. What you feel hurt about and feel bad about, is what is taught to you since childhood. So if your parents don’t teach you as a child to get sad when somebody takes something away from you; then you wouldn’t have felt bad about this situation.

How are good and bad thoughts grouped?

The good and bad thoughts are grouped based on what charge is associated with them. Also their ‘digital signature’, LOL not actually. Your cells of your body also have a digital signature that has good and bad charge and that’s how the cells get grouped. And the similar thoughts and feelings further group into a team forming little teams inside your mind.

What happens if you think negative most of the time?

When you think negative most of the time then you might form different thoughts and emotional groupings in your NLP partitions that are mostly negative. Now sadness, hurt, anger, hatred all are different and feel different. But after all they all are the same they make you feel ‘not good’.

Negative NLP Partitions

What are the DANGER’s of Negative Thinking?

Now as we know there is good and bad charge. Similarly there is good and bad energies out there in the spiritual world too. Good is connected to divine energies and bad group is connected to devilish or destructive energy. Good spiritual energies are the Angels, divinities, ascended masters, etc. Whereas the bad spiritual energies are the troubled spirits, vampires, psychic suckers etc.

The more the area of the good/ bad charge, the more you are open to that sort of situation is your life. And so if your mind has majority of good charged thoughts you will be more open to the positive spiritual world. Where you will get more of good health, healing, happiness, miracles, good luck, etc.

Positive Thinking

And if the majority of charge of your mind is negative, then you get more open to the negative spiritual world. And this negative world consists of negative spirit energies who will make you feel sick, diseased, depressed, have psychological issues, bad-luck, misfortune turning back again and again at you.

Positive Thoughts as a majority in your mind 

The bigger the area of good or bad charge, the easier it is to get thoughts, feelings and experiences of that sort in your life.

If you have majority of good thoughts and emotions occupying a larger area of your mind then you will get thoughts/ emotions automatically based on that charge. So if your charge is positive, your positive thinking will be on auto-pilot. And you will continuously get positive thoughts all the time. So good thoughts about yourself and people around you will be easy, understanding wisely negative situations- will come automatically to you,

And similarly if you have negative charge in majority then you will have negative thinking on auto-pilot and you wont have to make an effort to think negative. Thoughts of negativity, fears, hatred, revenge, psychological problems, suicidal thoughts would be effortlessly coming into your mind.

negative thinking

Negative thoughts as a majority in your mind.

 How to overcome this?

The positive thinking model looks good, but negative thinking thingie might freak you out. And there maybe a shout inside you that yells for solution of it. There’s a solution for everything after all.

We all were born with just positive thoughts and positive charge, (unless some people who are born with negative issues due to past life karmas) and our upbringing, surroundings and teachings that our elders and schools gave made us aware that there is something ‘bad’ too. Otherwise a child doesn’t know the difference between good and bad. Child runs at the view of chocolates too and also runs happily to catch fire. There’s no distinction of good or bad for a child.

When something bad happened to you, do you remember you were reminded continuously that its bad, you’re bad, you’ve done bad? So what happened the commands were repetitive and so that way that experience was made to appear big to leave an impact on your mind. So that you don’t forget it and remember it forever. So in the same way you too can work in repetition, inorder to remove that negative thought by thinking opposite of it and repeating in your mind again and again.

This positive sentence repetition is called affirming. This is not something new, its going on for centuries. How?! Chanting and mantra repetition that has been an age old tradition of all religions.

Repeating positive sentences to yourself again and again is very effective to begin thinking positive. These affirmations become more powerful if they are done at bedtime and as soon as you wake up.

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Cards for Love & Relationships

The month of February begins with a mushy feeling of red rose petals falling down your path, winds carrying the notes of lovely romantic songs and a sense of affection and warmth in the heart of doing that special thing for the special one that has made your life special by coming into it and giving you the Unconditional Love that you have always longed for.

So with this ‘love’ly month I too decided to share with you some of the Cards from the Tarot that are cards for Love & Relationship. Tarot holds few cards in it that are specially meant to show Love, relationship beginnings, marriage like celebrations, contented family life etc. Let get directly to these cards….

Ofcourse it depends on the position where these cards have fallen, to actually figure what they mean in the spread. So try to decode them carefully when you attempt to do a reading with them.

I) Lovers Card –

The Lovers

The all singing and dancing card for celebrating Love is the Lovers card. This is the card showing a truly heart centered relationship that is happening at your end. Probably the ideal relationship for long term commitment, marriage and family oriented.

II) Ace of Cups – 

Ace of Cups

This is the card that suggests that you are ready for love, new enthusiasm and desire arises within you when this card appears in the spread. There are times when people are totally not ready for accepting love in their lives, but when this card appears in the spread the person who might have been gone through trauma, is healed and is again ready to get back to love and ready to search love and fall in love again.

III) 2 of Cups – 

Two of Cups

You might find quite a bit of cups cards here… This is again the second one. This card says that two people who might find love in each other are getting closer, by friendship, partnerships at work etc. But this is happening in any area of life. And these two people are potentially good pair as lovers. They will be able to get into a healthy and romantic relationship if they intend to do so.

VI) 4 of Wands – 

IV) 3 of Cups –

Three of Cups

And yet again a cup card, the three of cups card shows that three people are rejoicing with cups. This is a card that shows that two people have already gotten into relationship and now that relationship is seeing a phase of celebration. The celebrations that are based on relationships of two people can be many like engagement, marriage, baby shower or celebrations amongst people that are closely related to the two people in love.

V) 10 of Cups – 

ten of cups

The ten of cups card is a winner in this category. The ultimate joy of a fruitful family life. Fully blown affectionate and loving family life is depicted by this card. Tens are for completion of a phase and this card shows the final expected result of any relationship.

VI) 4 of Wands – 

Four of Wands

This is the card that ultimately shows the marriage set up. But it can be for a variety of celebrations. It can be either engagement or marriage or maybe even babyshower. The celebration of the birth of new soul. The difference between this card and the 3 of cups is that, this card shows more of the happiness of the two people whose celebration is taking place.

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What does this year 2015 have in store for you?

I am doing a brief reading for all of US, in this world. About how this year is going to be for us. I have shifted to the “Doreen Virtue Decks of Tarot” for my Tarot Readings as I want my readings to have that Divine and positive touch along with giving clear guidelines about people’s lives. And so I am using the same Deck for this reading here too. I am using the Archangel POWER Tarot. Sounds interesting, is’nt it? Yes I know, just the name of the deck brings tingles down your spine. So I will be using this same empowered deck to give reading for how this year is going to be for us. Its a general reading and yet will be profound based on the general happenings during the months of this year. Ofcourse if you want your personalized reading for this year I can help you with that too. Just send me a message dropping in a line saying “Yearly Reading”; with an investment of $97 you can expect your juicy personalized yearly reading in your email.

So let’s get back to our today’s subject again; The yearly Reading… Hows this year for us according to TAROT.

First of all let’s see how this year is numerologically good for us.

The year is 2015, if we add up the digits 2+0+1+5 = 8, and 8 is the number of abundance for all of us. Eights are great fro bringing abundance for all of us, in not just money basis but also in all other areas of our lives.

Goodness for Jan 2015 – Page of Ariel

This month is very good for those who are pursuing education or studies. Also good for those who are intending for getting/ learning more about some field of their expertise. Scholarships can be expected or offered to the ones who are very talented and deserve it. Also this month intends to educate yourself with things that you know very less about and have been getting into your way of succeeding or getting to higher levels of work from where you are.

Goodness for Feb 2015 – The Emperor

Slowly all the educating and learning that you’ve had in the past month is going to sink into you, and results will start showing in your work. Bringing stability in and efficacy in your work. Be sure that you take an active part in your work. Your enthusiasm for work is needed. Things wont play magic on its own, you have to show your readiness for being the magician inorder for the magic to flow through you. This also is a direct sign for the month of sept where actual magical things will start happening with ur steady work efforts.

Goodness for Mar 2015 – Knight of Raphael

Woohooooo…. After the month of february this card here seems to be that everyone around the planet will be having abundance in their relationships as well. Commitment in a relationship is in the cards, getting totally engulfed into Love and romance. If you have longed for Love and Romantic relationships in your life for a long time, then this is the time for you. Getting totally swept off by Love and affectionate care. Be ready to accept what’s coming your way!

Goodness for April 2015 – Seven of Michael

This month might be a little challenging, it doesnt seem to be a challenge to you directly. Maybe people around you might feel the challenge as it might be difficult for them to cope up with your decisions. Well try not to stay away and aloof from the crowd. Accept help with other’s who are more knowledgeable on things that you dont know much of.

Goodness for May 2015 – Knight of Ariel

This month will bring you to roads where you have to make yourself trustworthy and reliable. Which you already are, but there is always the thing ‘to prove yourself’ to the world that happens with everyone. And so embrace this month’s energy and begin to show off your qualities of being trustworthy, understanding and reliability. Not for the sake of showing off, but by actually performing actions that speak for themselves.

Goodness for June 2015 – Seven of Ariel

The things that you have already given your share of hard work are now over, let them take time to reap the rewards on their own. Do your deeds and leave it to the universe to give you your worth of hardwork. Now its the time to make new plans. Start planning for the next new bang that you want to make with your hard work. I can say smart work. Leave a mark with whatever you do.

Goodness for July 2015 – The world

The world card says that there will be certain tasks, projects, or working opportunities that will come to an end, a happy ending. There will be good things learned from this place along with good results for the work done. You will gain necessary insights that you need to learn from this situation/ work.

Goodness for August 2015 – Three of Michael

This card shows that there might be situations that might hurt you during this month. But rather then taking this as a problem, you have to view it from higher point of view. What’s in it that you need to learn. Instead of taking the ‘learning’ word as something that is going to be difficult; take it as something that is going to add to you. Unless you add it you are not fuller. And so such things need to happen to evolve us.

Goodness for Sept 2015 – The Magician

After the successful endings with the World card, this card shows bright and beautiful beginnings. Whatever you have longed for will manifest on its own. Magic seems to be there in your life, just ready to play on your tunes. Successfully beginning new ventures, relationship or projects. Or maybe buying a new house. Also this card says that the seven chakra system would stay extraordinarily normal and balanced, in alignment with nature during this month.

Goodness for Oct 2015 – The Star

A dream come true, what you think you will get. What you have always been eagerly wished for will come into fruition this month. All the things that had been difficult will stop being difficult. Paths will become smooth and easy, Remember to go with the flow. Life always takes you to the best possible place you are supposed to be in.

Goodness for Nov 2015 – Change your Life

After a good card appeared, the card of TRUTH appears. Certain things that might not be much known by you, maybe the things that could be more hurtful or shocking have been under cover. And which might have been hidden from you now start revealing themselves. It will break free you from certain bondages, maybe it can come as a shock. Accept and learn what that change brings in your life rather then complaining about it.

Goodness for Dec 2015 – Two of Gabriel

This month is especially for making bold decisions about your career. You would achieve great amount of progress with the choices that you make this month. Make sure you follow your ambitions. People who share similar visions about your ambitions will become much of importance to you.

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This is the most burning question or problem that most tarot reader faces. Whether reading for self or for others these cards are the ones that most tarot readers avoid or pray not to fall into the spread. Coz these are the ones most difficult to accept as well as to explain to make them accepted in the reading.

So every person who reads the cards always pray before the reading to not see these cards in their reading.

But the Tarot was designed in a way that they help people to decode the problems of their lives and move towards a better future. So doesn’t that mean that these cards are also designed in such a way because of a reason?!

Lets see first of all which are those cards –

Hanged man, 13th card, Tower, Moon, 9 of swords, 10 of swords. And few others too, but these are the most intense ones.

The Hanged man-

the card showing limbo period and a period where you wont be understood despite of being wise for the situation

The 13th Card –

You know the reason why I didnt even mention the name of this card. Its because this card freaks out most tarot readers. Which is not actually ‘freaking bad’ all times when it pops up. It does also mean destruction of something, completion of a phase and beginning of other phase.[I almost threw away this card, when it appeared 4-5 times and after which my dad passed away. I didn’t want this card to appear in my deck anymore. I stuck a white paper to it….. Meaning everything is over and life is a blank page for you to begin writing again.]

Tower –

The figure showing lightning bolt on a tower and two people falling down from its top, actually bringing shivers coz it actually does this when it turns up in the reading either mentally, emotionally or physically. Lesser possibilities of physical falling.

Moon –

The unknown fears and dangers that might be popping up in your or your querents life. Are difficult to accept or explain, dont you think?

9 of swords –

 The most depressive card, I feel this is.

10 of Swords –

Dark, gloomy, pot hole type of feeling.

Now these are the general feelings that come to mind with these cards, but these cards being in a tarot pack not only mean these but are also here for a reason. If they meant only negative they wouldnt have been in a tarot pack at all. These cards have more deeper meanings after the negativity they show in them.

Let see for eg –

The hanged man – this man will prompt you to go towards a spiritual search for yourself, stop being a puppet at the hands of destiny

The 13th card – this card means to destroy the garbage beliefs, patterns in your mind that are useless for your life and future and accept new phases in life. Accept new patterns that are constructive and positive.

The tower – false beliefs, or illusions will break apart and truth will make way to your belief system. Such a positive reason for this card to be in the deck.

Moon – The unknown also plays a strong role. In life there is needed a little unknown, as knowing everything snatches away from u will to get surprises.

9 of swords – learn to get out of drama and be real

10 of swords – stop thinking and whining about past and start accepting the change that has already taken place.

These are the basic meanings of these card I feel, I would like to get what you feel from these cards. And what you do to remove these feelings from ur mind for these cards.

Are there more card that freak you out? Lemme know how you deal with them….
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